27 Oct, 2016

Mouth Open

So, we recently visited Cotopaxi National Park. Wowzer! It was stunning! It turns out a friend and mega talented photographer (Joshua Brown) came with us. Pics and video will be coming soon. :) And while the three of us were sitting by the fire, drinking tea after a travel day, [...]

6 Oct, 2016

Is Married Life Without Kids Fulfilling?

Someone asked me recently if married life without children could, indeed, be fulfilling.  She was anticipating that she might be in our shoes soon and wondered what it was really like. Well, I can say YES, we feel fortunate to say that our lives have been extremely fulfilling. I don't [...]

3 Oct, 2016

There’s More to Say…

I didn't quite get it all out with my last post. Because I wanted to say this: LGBTQ people are some of the greatest examples to me. Because they have to do SO MUCH WORK to come out and to be true to themselves in our society. I think that [...]

1 Oct, 2016

Because We Love the Mormon LGBTQ & Allies

*We are smiling big over here.* Danny & I just gave an opening keynote to the largest audience to date (650 people!). It turns out it was one of the most amazing, holy, spiritual experiences of our entire lives. Preparing to speak there was some of the most important work [...]

1 Sep, 2016

5 Year Anniversary: What I’ve Learned From Sharing My Voice

This September, I will have been writing blog posts here for FIVE YEARS!!! Starting with this post.  The experience has been extraordinary to me. I can't thank you enough for being a part of this. We've experienced a lot together, huh? I wouldn't trade it for anything.   -------- Today, [...]

25 Aug, 2016

When You Meet Someone Amazing – And Then You Choke!

Have any of you met someone unbelievable, like truly your DREAM guy or girl, and then you just absolutely choke?  Perhaps you begin to not feel comfortable in your own skin; perhaps your personality and openness goes into hiding; perhaps you feel unlovable and not good enough. <breathe, breathe> And [...]

18 Aug, 2015

In Case Your Partner is Addicted to Porn: How to Heal

Dear Readers, This topic of porn addiction comes up so much. And I say: where else is a better place to discuss it than here? This is one loving and smart community where we attempt to tackle life's problems in the best way. So let's do this. First of all, [...]

14 Aug, 2015

My Current Tightrope

I want to share something I am doing personally RIGHT NOW. TODAY. AND YESTERDAY. to help me thrive more in this current life that we have. I am currently working hard on this, let me tell you. Because I have so much to overcome. We teach that often during a [...]

13 Aug, 2015

Learning How To Live This New Life

A new family has just moved into our apartment in Brooklyn. They have a child and a dog. That once was going to be me. They'll meet friends for playdates at Prospect Park. They'll sleep with a wall between them and the magic of Brooklyn all around. They'll sit by [...]

8 Apr, 2015

On Sharing Your Voice

(Photo by Saydi Eyre Shumway, of Boston) I used to not have anything to say. NADA. You may not believe me, but people who have known me a long time can probably back me up on that. I just felt like I didn't have anything to offer. One of my [...]