Am I enough? Am I enough to be desired? Does my lover feel connected with me enough? Do I offer enough vulnerability and connection in return that is strong enough to sustain a relationship, love, loyalty, fidelity, desire?
No more pity party. 🙂
No more victimhood.
No more stewing in fear.
No more worrying about the worst case scenario (because you’d be enough then, too.)
Acting like you are “enough” will change you. Yes, it may feel like acting in the beginning. But if you put your focus in the new direction – guess what? Your energy is actually no longer going towards all the thoughts that don’t serve you! You’re not spending time on feeding those fears and they can actually lose their power over you! They are, after all, just thoughts. Instead, you’re putting your focus towards allowing your body and mind to practice what it feels like to be secure, content, fearless, worthy, confident, lovable.
It’s all a matter of managing your energy. And we’re in charge of that.
We truly get to choose where we put our energy.
Love to all,
P.S. On my end – I certainly work on this, too. I’ve mentioned before that I’m working on the idea that I am enough to earn a living helping people to live with a love mindset. Pulling that off would be a dream to me. 🙂 But earning a living will take more than just writing blog posts. So I’m trying to believe – and act – more and more like I am enough to continue making this happen. And writing that didn’t feel vulnerable one bit. 😉 haha.
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